Lawyer, Mom, eSafety Consultant = Digital Parenting Coach

The other day, a friend asked me not WHAT I do, but HOW I came to do what I do?  Hmm, interesting question.

If you believe in kismet, then you are halfway to understanding the fantastic ride that led me to my current profession. So let me fill you in on some of the background.

I am an American lawyer who worked in a California law firm, before realizing that law firm life wasn’t for me. I moved to Paris to fulfill a dream of being a "human DOing" rather than a "human BEing." Had a bit of drama when I arrived in Paris not speaking French and not knowing French law, but everyone says ‘reach beyond your grasp’ and there you go.

I went back to school to get an MBA and an MA in International Trade while learning the language, law and scoping out the job situation. My second year in Paris, I landed a job in a French subsidiary of an American company.

I worked in their legal department for 3 years before moving on to an Internet conferencing company where I...

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Encouragement for the Digital Parent: Parenting Techniques

I bet you’re wondering whether you even have a digital parenting technique.

Well I can guarantee that you do.

But first let’s clear up this digital parent business. If you have a child who is a digital native, a child born who was born after the widespread adoption of Internet technology, then by extension you are a digital parent.

Your digital parenting technique is no different than your regular parenting style.

Authoritative parents are very supportive and very demanding, and they provide a balance of rules and boundaries to their children. They explain the rules and boundaries beforehand and the child is given plenty of opportunities to explore and develop.

Permissive parents provide tons of love and attention to their children with few rules. Permissive parents encourage their children to explore freely without repercussions and the parents are an available resource, should the child wish.

Authoritarian parents are more focused on controlling the behavior of their...

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Parenting a Child Under 3 in the Digital Age

Parenting in the digital age is bringing new challenges to parents - and children alike.

One of the keys for moving forward as a Digital Parent is to understand the issues and then apply best practices to your family. But attention, don't be afraid to mix and match things up to find something that works for your family.

Effects of Screen time

  • Research is not conclusive on the effects of screens on child development, so err on the side of caution and find balance for screens in the life of your child. Too much screen time may damage the brain, inhibit the ability to recognize emotions, and affect child development.

Screen limits

  • Most pediatricians and psychologists on both sides of the Channel recommend no screens for our wee ones. Wee = less than two years old. 
  • If you’re feeling rebellious about screen limits and have older children, compare your digital family plan with Nanea Hoffman, author of an inspiring no-screen limit article for...
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How to Report an Online Incident in Your Country

What do you do if you or your child experiences an online incident?

Parenting in the digital age is no different than ‘regular’ parenting and one of the first things that a parent must do is to note the contact information for emergency (online) services, just like you do in the offline world. What parent doesn’t know the emergency number to call for firefighters or police?

This How-To contains all the contact information that you need in the event of a digital emergency in France, Canada, Belgium, the US and the UK.

And I hope that you NEVER EVER need them. Period.

As an Internet enthusiast, I encourage children and young people to enjoy (age appropriate) technology and I provide lessons on digital citizenship so that they can use technology and the Internet in a responsible manner. Despite these precautions, it is inevitable that something inappropriate will happen. While I sincerely hope that the degree of the incident is minor and nothing more than a few...

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Kid Korner: Thoughts of Minecraft

AUTHOR: Joanne Cammish

To understand the digital world: go to the source.

If you want to better understand a game or app that's aimed at young people, it's probably worth taking the time to find out about it from the player at source.

I decided to interview my nephew to get his thoughts on Minecraft. He is a reliable source as he been playing Minecraft for the last 5 years and from here on in will be referred to as Minecraft Guru or MG.  (He will really love reading that title.)

How did you discover Minecraft?

MG: My 'on trend' grandad (gaming grandad?!) introduced me to Minecraft a few years after its release in May 2009.

Should parents let their children play Minecraft?

MG: YES. Definitely yes.

What do you believe that parents need to know about Minecraft?

  • It's a creative, fun game to play or own.
  • It's educational and challenging, encouraging and motivating players to gain achievements through strategising, planning ahead, making decisions and reasoning in order to...
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Parent Perspective: My Digital Parenting Transformation


AUTHOR: Joanne Cammish

I have developed a very recent interest in online safety and parenting. The interest in technology in general has stemmed from the beginning of my teaching career in 2000.

During my career, in and amongst other roles, I have always been drawn to Information Technology. I might not have understood all the complicated tech in’s and out’s, but I understood enough to recognise that I.T. would be very significant in the future. Obviously, I couldn’t have predicted just how big. In my most recent role as Computing subject leader, I spent months cramming up on my knowledge, policies, the new curriculum and all associated paraphernalia. And yet, there is always more to learn.

In parallel with my career in education, I also became a parent. I think that most of you would agree that parenting is without a doubt the most important and hardest ‘job’ while also being the most consuming and rewarding. I have been fortunate to be able to spend...

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Be a Digital Parent Role Model

The key to digital parenting is communication.

A  digital parent . . .

  • Talks with their children openly and regularly
  • Knows that there is a time and place for tech - and is able to explain that to their children
  • Searches online for anything that they don’t understand
  • Appreciates the benefits of Internet and technology
  • Is aware of the risks of Internet and technology
  • Remains calm when something happens
  • Pays attention to their children’s use of screens, including TV, Kindles, gaming consoles, etc.
  • Is a good digital role model
  • Knows how to use parental controls
  • Encourages their children to use Internet and technology, (wisely and safely)
    Plans offline activities whenever possible

And here are some excellent resources to keep you motivated:

Family Online Safety Institute: 7 Steps to Good Digital Parenting

Internet Matters: Online Issues: Learn About It, Talk About It, Deal With It

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A Checklist to Consider Before Giving Tech Gifts

Internet of Toys and Tech Gifts: mind-boggling devices for the Digital Parent.

 The Internet of Things is relatively new, but the results are everywhere: intelligent heaters that warm up your home before you arrive, refrigerators that order juice and eggs when you've run out; fitness trackers that beep when you've achieved your activity goal for the day and more.  It is clear that the Internet of Things has a fantastic objective of efficiency and obtaining results, however, smart Digital Parents need to be aware of the issues so that can act accordingly.

All of this tech stuff is well and good, but what happens when your child's toys can talk back to your child? Or that police car toy is fitted out with a webcam?

The tech industry is steadily cranking out mind-boggling devices, but notions of security and privacy are not foremost on their minds.  So it's up to you as a Digital Parent to roll up your sleeves and dive into the subject matter - preferably before handing...

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Mixing-up Offline and Online Activities

When school is out, there is a tendency to take lots of digital breaks.

With long weekends or school vacation my boys are ecstatic, but I am a little bit less so.  What begins as good intentions - "we'll go to museums, we'll do arts and crafts, we'll play board games as one big, happy family" - too often ends as, "let's watch the iPad." (Which isn't necessarily a bad thing, as this article will show you.)

So while I put some measures in place to keep my boys alert and interested, I thought I would share them with you.

Don’t ban all Internet-related activities.  If your family is like mine, you may have a mini-revolt on your hands.  Use the downtime to look at some things together online – if you’re on a ski vacation, how about checking out the history of skiing?  National Geographic puts out some beautiful and interactive history lessons on skiing.  A long weekend vacation with stormy skies? Why not check out some of Huffington Posts...

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Reasons Why It's Cool if Your Children Learn to Code

Okay so first let's address the big elephant in the room.  No, I do not know how to code.

No, I'm not a programmer, but I do know my way around Wordpress (nod to Alannah Moore, DIY website building guru). No, I don't think coding is CRUCIAL to become a good digital citizen, but I like the following comparison:

I don't know how a car runs, but I can drive one rather well.  And when I was a young girl, my father made sure that I knew how to drive a stick-shift, change a tire and check the oil.

So while I don't think your children need to know how a computer works, I think it would be dandy if they had a few pointers.  And just like you exposed them to piano, judo, art classes, ballet and so on, why not expose them to a coding class or two? It may become a life passion or it may become a useful tool - like knowing how to drive a stick-shift.

Coding is for everyone.

Boys and girls are encouraged to begin coding as the world is becoming more and digital and it pays to...

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